Garter belts and guns
Photo: Elfy Haikel

Garter belts and guns

Photo: Elfy Haikel

I don’t have a thigh gap

I don’t have huge boobs

I am a little chubbers around the thighs

I’m a little chubbers around the arms

I don’t have a very petite face

I look like a pear when I wear pants

I like wearing pants

I also like wearing these sort of get ups for kicks


But you know what that amounts to? I am confident about who I am - I am confident about my body - and no matter what fashion choices I or any other girl/woman chooses to pursue, I believe that is their fuckin’ choice and it still commands the same respect you’d give to anyone who matters.


I’m a little tired of people judging women for who they are based on how they look. I mean - who isn’t. If that chick is a bitch on the inside sure I mean - then there’s a bitch, but I’ono, lately I’ve been seeing people get judged by who they are on the outside be it when I’m scrollin’ through Facebook and Twitter or reading stories of other people’s experiences.

 This has to stop yo - from both parties. People got to have to stop looking only on what’s on the outside and people have to start loving themselves. You wanna cosplay a character but think you a little too chubbers? If you personally feel that you ARE too chubbers and don’t want too, then that’s fine and a respectable decision, but if you don’t because you’re AFRAID that people gonna think you’re a fookup, then that ain’t right! It’s your body, be confident about it! There’s a THICK line between choosing what you want to do with your body (dieting, gaining weight, getting body mods, dressing up) because you WANT TO and because you THINK YOU HAVE TO.

I guess it can be hard, after all, we are biologically hardwired to see the surface first (please, don’t deny that) but society has warped that evolutionary instinct to include hate, discrimination, and bullying. I’ll admit that I’ve never been bullied about how I look before because I never counted those hurtful comments as bullying. Honestly! Why do other people’s opinion of how I look matter - shouldn’t I be focusing on comments that people make regarding who I am on the inside?

(Comments relating to who I am on the inside based on how I look - obviously, are not included.)


Love yourself, love how you look, love your chubbers, love your moles, love your stretchy marks, love your weird crookedy teeth or whatever - because they clothe a very unique person on the inside.

- Kai

From my glorious glory days.

From my glorious glory days.

Pray for me, Gloria. 
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Pray for me, Gloria.
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Hehehehehe, I’m in that mood.
Photo : Elfy
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Hehehehehe, I’m in that mood.
Photo : Elfy
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Weather the storms and don’t look back on last November, when your banners were burning out.
Photo by Allan Goh. Cosfest X.II 2012

Weather the storms and don’t look back on last November, when your banners were burning out.

Photo by Allan Goh. Cosfest X.II 2012

Just showing off full ensemble. :>
Cosfest X.2 Feb 25-26 2012

Just showing off full ensemble. :>

Cosfest X.2 Feb 25-26 2012

"Look out at the setting sun, brink of your vision."
Photo by : A.P. Yeo

"Look out at the setting sun, brink of your vision."

Photo by : A.P. Yeo

Just back from Cosfest. More pics coming soon. Do comment and critque! :>
Viva la Gloria!
Picture by David Poh

Just back from Cosfest. More pics coming soon. Do comment and critque! :>

Viva la Gloria!

Picture by David Poh

You made your bed in salad days amongst the ruins, ashes to ashes of our youth.
Photo cred

You made your bed in salad days amongst the ruins, ashes to ashes of our youth.

Photo cred

"You found your home in all your scars and ammunition"

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"You found your home in all your scars and ammunition"

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New photos coming up soon! Just had an awesome shoot with this photographer. He knows what he’s doing for sure.
Stay tuned and please follow if you enjoy my work! :>

New photos coming up soon! Just had an awesome shoot with this photographer. He knows what he’s doing for sure.

Stay tuned and please follow if you enjoy my work! :>

Reposting some of my cosplay pics.

Reposting some of my cosplay pics.

GPOY. One of my favourite pictures from Cosfest. I’ll be working on something new soon. Aaaah so nostalgic.
Phoo cred - Bryan Lim

GPOY. One of my favourite pictures from Cosfest. I’ll be working on something new soon. Aaaah so nostalgic.

Phoo cred - Bryan Lim

More pictures from AFA.

More pictures from AFA.